My Personal Responsibility Pledge

A few weeks ago, in a rage, I wanted to write a post about personal responsibility and people’s apparent lack of it. Without getting too much into my rant: I believe older folks sometimes have a negative image of younger generations because we don’t take responsibility for our actions and we don’t learn from our mistakes (this is a generalization, I know plenty who do both). We’ve also come to expect a lot of things in our life. We expect to be given an education, we expect to be given freedom, and we expect to be treated fairly and righteously. We take these things for granted.

Now, I’m not saying that we shouldn’t expect some basic rights, but I feel there’s a lot of expectation and not a lot of giving. Sure some people are all about giving back to Mother Earth, volunteering their time, etc. But that’s not the giving I’m talking about. Younger generations need to start forming a sense of personal responsibility. You have a responsibility to yourself to take charge of your life and not rely on someone else to be there when you fall.

Personal responsibility doesn’t mean shutting out the world around you, and it doesn’t mean being selfish. You can be socially responsible while still accepting responsibilities for actions in your personal life as well. I attended a political event back in September put on by the Young Americans for Liberty where they showed an “I Pledge” video. I jotted a few notes during the video and some things that stood out for me:

“I pledge to remember the price of liberty is responsibility”

“I pledge to remember that wanting to keep your own money isn’t greed and spending other people’s money isn’t compassion”

So partially inspired by my fit of rage a few weeks back and also by the Young American’s for Liberty I Pledge video, the following is my personal responsibility pledge (or what I pledge to do to take charge of my own life and to give and not just receive or expect):

1. I pledge to work hard and make myself financially independent, to pursue my dream and never accept hand outs, bail outs, or any other form of public money
2. I pledge to open an emergency medical account to cover the unexpected, never to rely on others for my own well being
3. I pledge to start saving for the future with my first real pay check and continue to save so that I won’t leach off the fruits of another man’s labor
4. I pledge to live within or below my means so that I will never have to rely on others to fund my independence
5. I pledge to shop sales, cut coupons, and be a responsible, savvy consumer
6. I pledge to own my mistakes and apologize to those affected by them
7. I pledge to value experiences over material items
8. I pledge to contribute to my children’s education, both academic and otherwise
9. I pledge to cook and eat healthily whenever possible, to never blame others for the choices I make about my nutrition and well-being
10. I pledge to read and be an informed citizen of the world
11. I pledge to vote and make informed decisions on candidates, to have an open mind and listen to others, and to form my own opinion and think for myself
12. I pledge to be a lifelong learner, to never find myself without the skills to transition into new industries or more advanced positions in my own
13. I pledge to take seriously the freedoms I am given and act responsibly in order to retain those freedoms
14. I pledge to honor and support those charged with defending and maintaining my freedom and safety, never to take for granted the service they provide
15. I pledge to set a responsible and strong example for my children so they might come to pledge their own personal responsibilities one day, to lead by example
16. I pledge to set up a major purchases savings account, to never spontaneously make a major purchase, and ensure I am prepared to handle the expense
17. I pledge to expect the unexpected and plan accordingly, never turning to others for a solution or quick-fix
18. I pledge to act with common sense, never blaming others for mistakes or misfortunes I could have prevented or eased
19. I pledge to not feel sorry for myself or my situation, but rather to take charge and be the change I want in my life
20. I pledge to respect life, wisdom, and knowledge, and to never endanger, mock, or eschew the sanctity and greatness of each

I encourage all Gen Y’ers and even those younger to reflect on what you want to do in order to take responsibility for your life, to give and not just receive. It is becoming increasingly difficult to expect anything, so think about it now and stop to taking liberty for granted.

And I will close with another snippet from the Young American’s for Liberty video:

 “I will not live for the sake of another man nor ask another man to live for mine”